Some of my best Maryland memories involve my hands covered in old bay seasoning, ripping apart legs, and cracking shells. Bushels of crabs is a common measurement, and this family usually needs that many--they have a gift for sharing their lives with everyone around them.
Each Wecker has their own teaching style, and they tend to divide and conquer. Let's be honest, to sit down with a pile of whole crabs on the table can intimidate anyone new to the process. Each family member sits at a different table, and gives a short lesson on the art of picking a crab. Patti encourages, and her love of the process and tradition help others overcome any uncertainty.
Steve tends to weave a good story into his lessons, and makes sure everyone is comfortable with the process and has a glass of wine before he finishes.
Ryan tends to give good techniques, passed down to her from her parents and grandparents.
Joy makes the experience fun--she's hilarious. It sets people at ease and helps them to feel like naturals.
Pretty soon people begin to feel more adventurous. I watch it happen, as Weckers teach and invite people in to one of their favorite meals, people begin to embrace the experience, even if they had no intention of doing it when they sat down.
Stephen is a little more technical with his teaching style, like when he talks about beer and wine. He also weaves in history and answers questions well.
It gets a little messy.
This night was special, because we were celebrating Faith and Josh, and their families together around these tables.
Ryleigh, the newest Wecker. Look at that face--she fits right in.
This family--who just puts up a huge tent in the backyard and invites everyone they know to the party? They do. They host with their whole lives, love each other passionately, and are some of the most hilarious people I've ever met. I'm thankful for the Weckers.
